Do you know how to meet any woman, anywhere?
Although you may think knowing how to meet any women anywhere isn’t necessary (or you may think it’s awesome!), if you’re a man in today’s world, it’s actually more important than ever!
But why?! BECAUSE…most men CANNOT meet any women, anywhere! What this means is those men who don’t know how to meet any woman anywhere are limited in how and where they actually can meet women. This also means those same men who don’t know how to meet any woman anywhere are ALSO limited in their ability to meet a woman who is highly compatible for them. Make sense?
How most men are limited by how and where they can meet women
If you’re a man who doesn’t know how to meet any women, anywhere, there are usually a few places you likely depend on to meet women. These are:
- Through friends or your ‘social circle’
- Through work
Now before we even consider the controversial topic of meeting women through work, which may take that option off the table for you, you can already start to see the limitations of the above two strategies for meeting women.
Because most men don’t know how to meet any woman, anywhere, they often depend on meeting women through work and their friends. This is SO common that one of my favourite things to ask every couple that I meet is “How did you guys meet each other?” As you can imagine, the resounding and most common answer is “Through friends”, or “We used to work together”, or some combination or variation of the above. These answers are actually so common that I become extremely intrigued and even shocked when I occasionally meet a couple who met though some other means.
In fact, as you’re reading this after all, let’s do a quick test of my theory! Ask yourself (if you haven’t already)
- How did you meet your past girlfriends?
- How did any of your friends who are in relationships meet each other?
So, was I right?
Now look, of course there are exceptions to this! And please don’t think for a second that I am rubbishing meeting a girlfriend through mutual friends. In fact, there are some good advantages to meeting a girl through friends such as:
- Your friends can introduce you to people you might not have otherwise met
- You can get a bit of background (or warning) on the type of person she is
- Your friends can put in a good word for you
And so on…So what’s the problem then?
The problem isn’t meeting women through work , meeting women through friends or through your social circle.
The problem is when you are ONLY able to meet women through work, friends or social circle!
The Numbers: Why you massively limit your options if you don’t know how meet any woman, anywhere
The only way to highlight the true extent of the limits of not knowing how to meet any woman, anywhere is to get a little nerdy and crunch some numbers, because the numbers don’t lie!
Usually I do this sobering and brutal demonstration with men who come along to my live events just to help them realise what they are missing out on if they don’t learn how to meet any woman, anywhere.
I start by asking the audience, “How many women do you know through your social circle, through friends of friends or through work?” (Facebook friends don’t count as real friends haha!)
And the overwhelming majority reply with anything between 5 to 100 women. So for today’s demo, let’s take the average of that and say maybe you just happen to know 50 women through your social circle and through work (you can adjust that number for your own situation if you wish). So I then draw that number at the top of the board (watch the video at the top if you want to see me do this demo for you).
And then I ask them ,”Of these 50 women, how many of them are in the age range you’d actually date?”
And then they say, “I don’t know, maybe half of them or so?” and so that leaves about 25 women.
And then I ask them, “Of these 25 women that are in your age range, how many of them are you actually physically attracted to?”
And they say, “Oh, I dunno, maybe half of them?” and so that takes us down to 12 and a half women (if that’s even possible haha!).
And then I ask them, “So of these 12 and a half women that are left, how many of them are actually still single?” and many say “None!”, but let’s not be too pessimistic, so let’s just say maybe half of them might still be single. So that leaves somewhere around six women.
And then I say, “Okay, so of those six that are left, how come it hasn’t worked with it out with them already? How many of them have you already had a go with? How many of them can you actually even see yourself dating long term? And how many of them are you maybe already in the friend zone with? So how many does that leave?”
The room is typically very quiet by this stage, and you usually get a few mumbles of “I don’t know, maybe none?” or “One or two or so?”
But let’s not be too stingy here, and let’s just say maybe there are two or three left out of the 50 we started with.
And so these two or three women that are left are typically what you’re limiting yourself to if you don’t know how to meet any woman, anywhere.
I’m sure you’ll agree that the chances of those few women just happening to be highly compatible for you are extremely slim! Even in a typical episode of ‘The Batchelor’ the guy seems to have many more options than that, and he still seems to struggle to find a highly compatible girl amongst them all!
When faced with this situation, most men simply ‘settle’ and take what’s on offer, believing that it’s the best it’s going to get. In fact, this is what I used to do myself!
So what does this mean? Are you destined to suffer a life of loneliness or unfulfilled relationships with incompatible partners?
That’s surely something worth thinking about.
How many MORE options does a man who can meet any women, anywhere have?
Some Legends Academy clients meeting women on one of our Live ‘Infield Trainings’
At The Legends Academy we teach our clients how to meet any girl, anywhere, so for example:
- If she’s walking down the street
- At the supermarket
- In a bar or a nightclub
- At the beach…
Or wherever happen to see her, and also:
- If she’s by herself or with some friends
- Sitting down or standing
- Walking or running
- Even if she’s wearing headphones!
And so that means our clients have a massive advantage as they have:
- An unlimited amount of opportunities armed with how to meet any woman, anywhere
- The ability to create an opportunity whenever and wherever they choose
- The confidence and skills to do it
Just imagine for a second what that would be like? To have the confidence and skills to meet any woman, anywhere, any time? How many more options would that give you? And how much more chance would you have of finding a highly compatible partner?
You can see what our clients say in our testimonials section if you want some idea of what that looks like, but we LITERALLY have clients complaining that they have:
- Too many phone numbers to follow up
- Too many girls messaging them
- Too many dates
- Not enough time to see all of the girls who want to spend time with them
- They are struggling to choose their favourite girl from amongst all of their options
- Struggling to choose between an amazing dating life or an amazing relationship
And so on. REALLY!
So would you like (better) problems like this and to be our next success story?
We’d love to chat with you about your situation and see if and how we can help you get the life you deserve, so if you’d like to know more, please Contact Us today and we can have a quick chat.
Thanks for reading!