Are you a Nice Guy or a Jerk?
I used to be a ‘nice guy’ and get frustrated from ending up ‘just friends’ with girls I was attracted to
What made this harder to accept was these same girls would often come to me and complain about how the guys they were dating would mistreat them!?
If you’re sick of ending up in the ‘Friend Zone’ after trying to be a nice guy to women, then this is the article for you!
Often it seems like ‘nice guys finish last’, and that women prefer jerks, assholes and bad boys who treat them like crap
But what’s really going on here?
And how can you avoid the friend zone without being a jerk to women?
Women can often be more attracted to jerks, assholes and bad boys than nice guys because, even though ‘bad boys’ may cause women to feel more NEGATIVE emotions…
They still cause women to feel a lot MORE emotions in TOTAL than a typical ‘nice guy’ would make them feel
This sounds CRAZY but you can learn more about this here
Often ‘nice guys’ are so worried about doing anything at all to upset a girl that they keep to very safe, boring, and predictable conversation topics and actions
These safe, boring and predictable topics may not cause the girl to feel any NEGATIVE emotions, but they usually are so boring that they don’t cause her to feel very much AT ALL!
And that’s where the problem arises…
I’m NOT saying you need to be a bad boy and cause women to feel bad
What I AM saying is that you need to learn to communicate with women in a way that causes them to experience a whole range of emotions when they’re with you
So they feel excited when they interact with you instead of dying of boredom!
Avoiding the ‘Friend Zone’
Another big reason that nice guys end up in the friend zone is because they lack a strong sense of character, they aren’t confident, and they let people push them around
It’s hard for a woman to respect a man that she can easily manipulate and push around
In most cases, women aren’t looking to push men around or take advantage of them
But if a woman can detect that you are a push-over, and that you don’t enforce your personal boundaries, and EVEN pro actively encourage people to take advantage of you by supplicating yourself, she won’t respect you
The problem is a large part comes from false information we receive from society about what women are attracted to
If you want to know more about getting women to respect you I recommend checking out this video:
(Sorry that video was out of focus, but the content was too good to not share it)
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