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The Biggest Mistake Men Make Messaging Women

October 8, 2014 by Ben Alexander

One girl's response to Tinder messaging using our Pro System

Do you know the biggest mistake men make messaging women?

It’s important to know this big mistake men make messaging women because it’ll help you avoid:

  1. Ending up in the ‘friend zone’
  2. Conversations fizzling out
  3. Wasting opportunities with women who are attracted to you

 

With the increase in written word communication in modern dating (Tinder/Whatsapp/Facebook/Online Dating etc), it has never been more important to have good messaging skills. If you fail to master messaging women, you will not even be in the same league as men who have, and you will struggle in the modern dating game

 

So what is the biggest mistake men make messaging women?

 

Failing to establish a “More Than Friends” dynamic with women by not incorporating sexual themes into their conversations

 

Men also frequently make this mistake in person with women too, although this article is just about messaging

 

How can you incorporate sexual themes without being creepy or gross?

 

One of the easiest and most fun ways to do this is through misinterpretation

 

When done CORRECTLY, misinterpreting an otherwise bland conversation piece with sexual innuendo allows you to establish a “more than friends” dynamic with a woman, in a fun, subtle and intelligent way, that they will be more receptive to than more obvious and crass sexual commentary (the latter actually often repels women if done when unwelcome or in the wrong way)

 

I have done over 12 months of extensive testing on the Tinder Dating App prior to writing this article,  and also have been mastering messaging women in general since I first started text messaging back in the year 2000

 

Here are a few fun REAL examples of how I’ve used misinterpretation to introduce sexual themes, and to introduce a ‘more than friends’ dynamic with girls I was messaging:

 

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