Want to know how to meet women in bars and clubs?
Bars and clubs are great places to meet women because they are often frequented by lots of fun, single women who are out to have a good time and meet new people.
When meeting women in a bar or club it is VITALLY IMPORTANT to immediately set yourself apart from the usual boring guys that approach them. Because bars and clubs often have a lot more going on, you need to be able to get AND HOLD her attention to avoid being blown away by the next guy.
One of the best ways to do this is to AVOID THE USUAL BORING CONVERSATION!
Avoid topics such as work, the weather, politics, religion, business, family etc. Even if she brings these things up, or you get onto the topic by mistake, try and get back onto some fun topics right away, and maybe even playfully tease her for talking about the usual boring topics.
SOME TIPS FOR AVOIDING BORING CONVERSATIONS
- Point out something exciting or bizarre that you saw recently, like a girl walking round the club with her dress tucked into her underwear, or toilet paper stuck to her shoes.
- Set up a playful scenario that involves you and her, such as telling her you are going to steal her away aboard your pirate ship, and make her scrub your decks and cook your meals, but you will promote her to first mate if she does a good job.
- Get her to tell you the best joke she knows and that it has to be funny. This makes her work for your approval.
- Make up nicknames for each other. Choose something about her and make up a funny nickname for her based on it. For example, if you met a girl who was wearing a red jacket with a hood, you could call her Red Riding Hood (I’ve actually done this)
- Get her to tell you her deepest darkest secret and promise never to tell anyone. Tell her if she tells you hers, you will tell her yours.
HOW TO “RULE THE CONVERSATION”
Women in bars and clubs sometimes have their guard up from meeting so many boring guys in a row. This can mean she will give you an attitude at first. If you can be patient with this and not let it get to you, or better still turn her attitude back onto her so she looks silly or you look clever, she will feel a huge amount of attraction towards you.
Here are a few examples on how to do this:
- If she tries to get you to do something for her, ask her what she will do in return. You can decide from how good her answer is if you will comply with her initial request or not.
- If she calls you a jerk or a sleaze etc, ask her what it is that she likes so much about these qualities.
- If she brags to you about something, tell her you think it’s cute that she’s trying to impress you.
These above examples are designed to show her that you aren’t just another walkover, boring guy and that she has to work for your approval. This will cause her to be extremely attracted to you and can even get HER chasing YOU!
You should always be playfully teasing and fun when using these types of responses and have the intention of making sure BOTH of you have a great time together. A smile goes a long way and will let her know not to take your teasing the wrong way.
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