What Is The BEST Pick Up Line? Do Pick Up Lines Work?
These are questions I get asked all the time by guys all over the world
It’s not so much that routines/pick up lines don’t “work”. It’s the sort of person you become as a result of dependence on them
Most guys who learn how to meet women start with pick up lines and routines and most of us ditched them for a very good reason
Some of the principles are sound, however mostly it’s based on pressing buttons to get reactions. If you can’t get responses from women at all, routines and lines are the fastest way to change that. However what it doesn’t change is the underlying issue of why girls don’t acknowledge you. It’s essentially a band aid over a gaping wound. A quick patch up job
I like to think of pick up lines and routines more as training wheels as a substitute for Real Confidence before you realise it’s not so much ‘what you’re doing’ as ‘who you are’ as a person that’s making women attracted to you
Routines/pick up lines give you the confidence you wouldn’t otherwise have. Psychologically it looks kind of like this:
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You think you now have “the answer” that will cause girls to be attracted to you because of the routine/pick up line/technique/neg etc etc
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Because of this your confidence goes up and you approach expecting a good outcome/result
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Because you are now making a confident approach and acting like an alpha male, the girl responds like she would to an alpha male (to be clear, alpha males are actually more so ‘detached from outcome’ than expecting a good outcome)
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This then makes you believe that “it worked” because you used the routine/pick up line etc
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Then you go tell everyone how great routines and pick up lines are because you attribute your success to the routines or line etc
That has been my experience and something I have experienced with many of my clients. It usually goes something like this:
- My clients ask me for a pick up line/routine/technique
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I ask them why they need it
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They say because they don’t want to get “rejected”
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I ask them if a confident person would care about getting rejected
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They say no
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I ask them if they didn’t care about rejection anymore, would they need the pick up line/technique etc
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They say no
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We work on getting them Real Confidence
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